Imagine if you went to sleep one night and discovered your whole life had changed when you awoke the next morning. That is what happened to me when I went into surgery expecting one result, but was faced with an entirely different reality – one that had a lasting impact on my life.
COME BACK STRONG is about finding balance in mind, body, and spirit. It's about being empowered to play an active part of your own health care team. It's about managing expectations and choosing your perspective. It's about uncovering and embracing your passion. It's about discovering your purpose. It's about learning to come back strong from a devastating life event, listen to your heart, and create a life you choose.
Second Wind I didn't plan to be a writer. I didn't major in Creative Writing, Journalism, or English Lit. In fact, my undergraduate degree was in Recreation and my graduate work was in Information Systems and Telecommunications Management. The fact is, I spent close to three decades trying to work out what I wanted to do with my life. I went from job to job exploring, striving, learning, and always searching for that one perfect job where my gifts, talents, skills, passions, and purpose would fit. Despite all the change one thing remains: I love to read and write. It's like breathing. When I read, I inhale. When I write, I exhale. The combination of the two gives me insight I can't find anywhere else. I love the aha moments, the universal themes, and the life lessons that can be found in just about any situation, be it trauma, tragedy, or triumph. Which is probably why I landed on memoir (and self-help), where I can write about universal truths that are illustrated by something deeply personal. I can dive deep into all kinds of experiences — abuse, divorce, surgery, surgical menopause, cancer, and racial tensions as well as cycling, the gym, food sensitivity, health transformations, road trips, setbacks and comebacks — and pull out the good, the bad, and the ugly. I can add lightness and laughter and find the positive. As I embrace hope and joy and share it with the world, it gets multiplied. “A joy shared is multiplied; a sorrow shared is divided.” ~ Proverb I began blogging in 2014 but it was in 2016 when I whispered my heart's desire to be a best-selling author. I always thought my first book would be about life lessons from the bike or cycling shorts (stories) but that book remains in incubation while others rise to the forefront based on the seasons of my life. Over the years I've written about all sorts of wellness topics, which I categorize as the Wheels to Wellness. The main four themes that have emerged are True Health – In mind, body, spirit and emotion Love – “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” The problem is, we don't love ourselves enough. Laughter – It truly is the best medicine Freedom – Because at some point we've all been in chains
I sat so merry in my abode
Loving hands around me
I dreamt of such glorious days
One day i would see
I remember the day I left
My room
I closed the door behind me
One quick look again
Then walked away
The room which would always remind me
The glorious days I had dreamt
I did merrily spent
How little did I then know
Life turns on a dime
My room is now not as it was
When I closed the door
Behind me
My room now is a prison
But not how one would invision
It is one of sorrow and grief
Sadness burns into the bare walls
I catch my breath
And weep
Why did thou'st doth betray?
The room which once embraced me
I ask with riddled heart
Jagged and torn
Which wicked riddles have I thus sought?
I sit still
I am now my room
No dreams as once before
I age before my open door
In my room long ago
I sat merrily in my loving abode
Loving hands did hold me
All gone
My room and myself
Now one
Two thrust to be together
Forever
Alone